I am sorry things didn't go they way they should yesterday. What can I say? I agree with Woog, Jenny and the any others that mentioned she sounds comletely confused. And the last conv/msg -whatever it was- just prooved it. If you find it in your heart, keep going. If you can and want to, stay focused on your ultimate goal. Time will tell. For the time being, know that all of us here are with you and praying that this was the last major set back you'll have to face before she comes to her senses.
I'll leave the practical and logical advice to the wiser people on this board.
Kalni
PS I don't know if you noticed yourself but today has been a hard day for many on these boards. A couple of people recieved D papers, legal papers, faced major bumps in their road, were disappointed. Maybe it's what Ali says, the eclipse... Hope tommorow will be a better day for all.