From the moment I started DB up until last week, I've avoided R talk so I'm not sure where W's head is in all that. So although we are getting on and she wants to work on the M , her actual words were "we need to talk more" and "We need to spend more time together" I'm not sure if she still want to get in to MC.
I did mention MC as a way forward last September when we first got into this sitch and W told me to eff off. I mentioned again when she finished with OM in December and she said she'd consider it, but its not been mentioned since.
I don't instigate R talk and now we're piecing I'm not sure how to do this just in case it breaks the calm. Any suggestions ?
