I am sorry to hear you had to have this conversation Tomato. I'm not the best DBer but I think you handled it well.. although your heart must have been aching.
Your W just sounds sooo confused.. I guess it's just proof that you can't believe 100% of what they're saying.
Hang in there. You've got a lot of fight left in you I'm sure!
W2G
And about the poetry... I wish my guy was in to writing poetry.. very romantic quality in a man!