Hey Lanzo, I am not wasting my energy thinking about these things. Just random thoughts. The reason doesnt really matter once you find out the act has happened. I have not started a R talk for 5 days now (have responded to her R talks), and I have no intention of starting one any time soon. She will bring it up enough for me I think. You always make me smile, you are my harbinger of doom! I have been out alot recently, feeling good for it. Going away for the weekend to catch up with University friends. Be away one night. I am as cool as the proverbial cucumber now. I think writing in my notebook helped, I could actually formulate a plan to follow, whereas before I had no direction for my energy.

Hey Alone in Alabama, sounds like a depressing read. Is it a book or an article on the web. I saw a book by that name on amazon.

I have forgiven my W her `indiscretion`.
I do not want to dwell on it too long. (although that is hard sometimes!


All you input is really helpful for me! Thank you all very much!

Cheers

Steve


Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.