You know, one thing I think we all have in common is that most of our H's, whether they have an OW or not, all seem messed up to me including mine! Sue, you know I was thinking when I posted a while back that you shouldn't probably even bother trying to talk stuff out with your H when he is drinking (it sounds like he may not remember anyway?).
I almost wonder sometimes if you should even spend too much time around your H when he is drinking? It doesn't sound healthy for you from what I can tell. I have so many former alcoholics and messed up people in my life; it's easy for me to give advice of course--I hope I haven't upset you with this!Karen43
