In my case, I was far from the perfect H. However, I did nothing which would even approach Biblical grounds for D. I loved my exW beyond words. Whether or not she wanted to believe it, she was the love of my life. I had grown to love her so much over the nearly 15 years we knew each other.
Yet, when the rubber met the road, she took off running... She was more interested in looker for greener grass... If she would have really been a Christian woman of character, she would have done anything to save our M... I was so willing to put in whatever work needed to be done.
The facts are the facts. Whether we choose to see them or live in denial.... My exW simply was not a good woman......
I could have written this exact post. Thank you so much RMG. You made me feel many things.
It is still so hard to say my Ex was not good. But not accepting it does not make the truth untrue.