Originally Posted By: faithisbelieving
Jeff...although you don't need this, I want to requote it from your thread FOR ME..if I may hijack your thread for a moment:

Originally Posted By: RMG

I had similar feelings until I met my new W. Looking back, I am able to see my WAW as she really is. She is not the type of woman any good man should ever be married to. She is TOTALLY in love... with herself! Her true character and beliefs were exposed during this time. As my friend Teresa said, "Rich, she does not deserve a man like you."

The funny thing is my exW believed the grass is greener.... Well, it REALLY is.... During all of this, I met many great women... Many of whom said, "What is your exW thinking? Most woman are looking for a man like you. They are not running away."

You really need to look at things lucidly and pray for guidance. Is this the type of woman you want to married to? If you accept your wife's behavior, what type of example are you setting for your children?



FIB,

I think you always need to keep things in clear perspective.

In my case, I was far from the perfect H. However, I did nothing which would even approach Biblical grounds for D. I loved my exW beyond words. Whether or not she wanted to believe it, she was the love of my life. I had grown to love her so much over the nearly 15 years we knew each other.

Yet, when the rubber met the road, she took off running... She was more interested in looker for greener grass... If she would have really been a Christian woman of character, she would have done anything to save our M... I was so willing to put in whatever work needed to be done.

The facts are the facts. Whether we choose to see them or live in denial.... My exW simply was not a good woman......

I hope you are able to step back and look at your sitch objectively....

Go with God,

RMG

Last edited by RMG; 02/06/08 05:23 PM.
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