Keep hanging in there, it sounds like your H is going through some really ruff stuff. I can imagine that it is so very hard to step back from it and not try to fix it.
You said your H was twisting your conversations around. I know it is so hard, but could you try not to say anything yourself, do more listening than speaking, and make the words you do say ones that validate what he has said so that he knows you are listening and trying to understand him?
Stay strong BA. I know how hard it is to hear about him being with the MOW. It sucks, but it sounds like you realize that it has to be like that right now. That if you tried to put opposition up about it, it would only push him away.
(((hugs))) and prayers coming your way!
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
