[quote=ntl From what I gather from your story, you'd like your M to work out. However, there's the possibility that your H won't come to his senses. If so, you'll want to be prepared with the information you've been gathering. If you're looking to save your marriage, I would save these records and say nothing. Hopefully, you'll never have to use them.
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That's pretty much along the lines of what I was thinking. You're right, I am trying to save the marriage, and getting into fights about this probably won't help and I don't think would change his behavior either, and probably make it harder to track the records in the future too I just realized. But I am going to save the statements and keep checking them too!!!
