I have a question. I just got the bank statement for the last month. Every Friday, H has been taking out about $120 to $160 in cash, I believe for the hotel rooms for he and the OW since they are both married with kids they have to do that. He uses the ATM card for everything (like restaurants every day) so I can see the cash was not used for anything else. That's adding up quite a bit.
What to do about that? The lawyer I saw said to keep any records like that. Should I just keep these and do nothing & not say anything. I guess I theoretically could get reimbursed after the divorce I think according to state law here, but I don't know that he'll have enough cash to do that. Maybe that will help me work out the home schooling though, because that $500 a month will just about pay for the home schooling that he doesn't think we can afford (yeah, but he can afford hotel bills for the OW)!
