[/quote] because I dont' have to deal with the anxiety of "what he's thinking" or "where is he (when he was late)" while he was home. [quote]
Why is it that we still get anxious over what they are thinking when we are supposed to be detached. I think it makes it harder when you are piecing to detach from all of the moodiness and them being so quiet. What is hard for me is knowing that H is never going to bring anything up as he just wants it to disappear. His body language tells me he still has a ways to go as far as connection to me although he is trying think.
ps: I posted to cat on here as her thread is locked
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
