feel it coming I need to talk to H I want to tell him how I feel I want to see if there is any hope for us I know its wrong timing and I cant take it anymore
I know how you feel but is pressing your H really going to change anything? I keep reading that MLC takes as long as it takes and there is NOTHING we can do to speed it up...we can only help prolong it. I have tried to push and it has gotten me no where...the last real talk my H and I had, I asked if there was anything he could give me and he told me no. Then he told me to just keep moving on with my life even date if I want to. I got some answers that I didn't really want but, did it change anything for me?...I am still here and hanging by a thread. I keep thinking of what you told me and I am hoping that my H will show some signs of progress in the next 6 months or so...hopefully I can hold on that long.
Now that seems contradictary from what I was suggested to w8ing...but her situation seems different since she questions whether or not her H is a WAS. I know with out a doubt that my H is in crisis...You seem certain that your H is in crisis as well.
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His IC told us to get D last year she said loves dies sometimes and its over she D twice with kids from 2 different M
Did you know anything about this C before you went to her? Obviously not pro-marriage...grrrr! I think these kinds of C should have there licenses revoked!
I am in the exact same place you are...last night I was feeling down, wondering why I just don't end it. These feelings seem to pass quicker than they used to. I am feeling better today...a little more energized...a little more in control. So, know that your feelings of sadness feelings are temporary.
Things will get better...just try to tweak your perspective and your focus...and let your frustrations go. You will be fine.
