I'm really torn between how to handle this. I think that I could step up and possibly win her back, but then I run into the issue of her still having buried feelings for this bozo. I also don't necessarily like the idea of going dark as that pulls me even further out of her life. But then again, maybe that's what she needs. She needs me to be gone so that she can miss me. All this crap with the OM started because she found out he was moving out of the country and she felt like she had to say some things to him. He moved back three days after she left me. She says that it was just coincidence and that she didn't leave me because of him. I believe her. Maybe I should move out of the country. Do you have any relatives in the old country that I could stay with Brit?
She's not seeing a C and I've encouraged her a couple times to go see one. Even offering to cover the expenses. She doesn't seem interested though. She said that I'm the only one that she's told all of her feelings to about both me and the OM.
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The fact that she is hanging out with you so much and her behavior is not consistent with what she is saying makes detaching REALLY hard.
You're telling me. She just IMd me thanking me for letting her spend the night and apologizing for what she felt like she had to say last night.
She's talked about the Peace Corps before when we were still together. It was something that she talked about us doing together. I have an Aunt and Uncle who did it just after graduating and she looked up to them. I think this go round of wanting to go is more of looking for a way to escape the problems that she's built up for herself. So yeah, I call BS too. I actually called her out on it last night and asked her if she thought she would feel any different when she came back. She said probably not, so that pretty much sums it up.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
