Look up on google and paper named "Womens Infidelity" and get your hands on it. It is a real eye opener, probably not what you want to hear but it has made me realize the facts and gave me closure. I wanted nothing more than to put my family back together and make it work, but the paper showed me that once it started, it was already to late. I have accepted that and am moving forward. This will help you in two ways, first it will help you to be able to take the focus off of you as the problem and second it will allow you to detach in the proper way. Maybe after you detach and quit feeling sorry for yourself, she may come back around and be more willing to reconcile.
Me 38 Her 31 Daughter 3
Dated 5 yrs Married 7 PA Bomb 7/26/07 Sep 1 9/1/07 Sep 2 1/5/08