What's this about...??

[Lissie]

I think the trip and the MC appt was wonderful

I see your wife and so scared. Like a child, her words made me want to hug her.

I want to bring up just one thing here.

W goes on: "I guess I'm just so hurt from all those years (marriage rewrite), I'm not sure if I have the emotional energy to invest in him again." (MLC BS)

I know they do re write many things on our marriage. I know that they talk alot of BS when they are in MLC.

I also know that we were not the perfect spouses.

And SOMETIMES we have to listen to what the WAS is saying. They do have some truths about us mixed in there with the BS.

I think that she was vulnerable when she said these things, and you may want to listen a bit closer.

It is easy for us to say, Oh they left us b/c they are in MLC and we were so great.

I am sorry, I have not read your entire situation. You may have realized things already, and are working on them.

Your MC sounds great.

Your wife does need your friendship now, and no pressure.

I am glad you get it, and are being there for her.

Remember to take care of yourself too.

Lissett