Your best bet is to go to a Retrouvaille weekend and learn good communication skills. Once you learn to listen to each other and how to ask questions, the whole process gets easier. It's simply a matter of having the tools to work with. Go to their website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org and read about the four stages of a marriage. Then check out locations and times of upcoming weekends. Congratulations! you've been through a lot. Good luck with piecing.
