hi - yeah, i went to therapy for 9 months or so when he left the first time, and he has gone for a year... they agree he is depressed and needs to work on that before anything else. He has re-written our past, and says some of the craziest things now. So stubborn, there is no way to argue it. His therapist is looking after him, mine after me, and never the two shall meet@!Thanks for the feedback, we are practically neighbors.
