MLC part 3

[addie]

Andabelle,
It is never too late to try to save your marriage. I would suggest getting Michele's book Divorce Remedy. There's a whole chapter in there on MLC. I've read the book a few times and that has helped me to stay the course in my M. If it hadn't been for the book and this site I would have given up long ago. With this current EA I've had a very difficult time DB and that's why we are now separated. I now have to regroup myself and focus on DB before it's too late. H now won't even talk to me or look at me. I know I just need to give him space, not contact him and maybe he'll come around. Easier said than done! I think you're doing the right thing by laying low. If you push him, he'll just distance himself further.
Are you GAL? If not, maybe pick 1 or 2 things you can do for yourself. It will certainly help get your mind off R.