it should not be an expectation of ours, nor should we try to influence an apology, or wait for one.
Thank you CL. In my thinking over the last little while, I'm seeing this more. That in my judgement of him I am generating expectations. And they're most harmful to *me*. He has to walk his path, and though his choices do impact my future significantly, my efforts to influence him into compliance with my will won't have the desired end result. He has to make those changes on his own independent of me.
This issue seems to keep popping up for me, but I'm starting to recognize it for what it is, and I think I'm seeing where I need to go with it. Just keep working on me. Know what? I'm a masterpiece in process!
