I wonder what will happen when you do move on and are in this truly great relationship with some hottie from upstate and your STBXH finds that instead of feeling better or freed of his guilt, he feels like CRAP. Hmmmmmm wonder what then?
He feels so bad right now, he is willing to try anything to feel better. Including, throwing away the best thing that ever happened to him. And, somehow in this state that he's in, he thinks his guilt will disappear when you have someone new. Twisted. And sad.
But, you know what? You have no control over it or him.
I'd really like to see you hook up with that hottie, anyway. When you're ready. You so deserve it.
Hugs,
Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
