Littlebitlost,
I too, at times become weary of the limbo that we live in (together/not together) and lash out at my H. But, my H, like your H, sees this as a complete negative and it sets me back an entire week in my efforts!! It's extremely hard to live in the unknown, while we watch seemingly happy couples live their day to day lives. Some days, I do want to just give up and say I'd rather be divorced than wander aimlessly not knowing. But most days, I see the light, and I go forward knowing that I have to try my hardest or I will never be able to forgive myself.
Your children are still young, and like I've said in most of my posts...It's not easy when you're on your own and you walk...but when you walk with two small children involved its even harder. It's hard to decide what to do, but ultimately you will make the decision that's best for you...just remember...what the consequences of that decision may be..

Take care and you're not alone!!!


Me 40, live in WAW
H 39
married 9 yrs
seperated 18 months, apart 7 months
D 4, 16
S 6, 19