It seems to me your W is saying she clearly is not done w/ you or your R. Sounds like she is trying to step up to the plate a little. Clearly her new C realizes she is very messed up. My app. have always been two weeks apart even when I was at my worst. It hasn't even been a week since your W saw the new C. Hopefully this one will be more helpful than the other.
She went tonight, but I'm not sure when her next appt is. She didn't give them her phone number, so they call me instead - Guess they still have mine from when I called the other week to get her first appt together.
Today was totally insane. In a good way. I think. I guess W woke up at 8am and "didn't feel like going to work". Yeah - My W hasn't missed a day of work in three years unless she is dying or D is really sick and I can't watch her. I smell BS, but I went along with it.
W got over here a little after 10 and made herself at home - Made breakfast for herself, parked on the couch and watched TV with D for a while. She seems to feel pretty comfortable over here. We took D to the doctor together (D is fine - Just some sinus congestion). W suggested we go to lunch together, but it was pretty early. So she said she wanted to get some new curtains for her house and maybe it would be time for lunch afterwards. Off we went with D, and had a great time at Target. We both got a bunch of stuff for our houses, so it was pretty productive. W kept picking out things for me "That'd look nice in the blah blah". She has pretty good taste, but I didn't want to get everything all at once
We went for lunch with D somewhere other than where we were planning, which ended up being a disaster since the service was horrible and W got pretty frustrated. But, she seemed to come through it okay and we ended up having a decent time. I figured we were going to leave, W would drop me at home and take D, then she'd bring D back over here for her C appt. Nope - W asked if it was okay for me and D to come over to her house, and D could take her afternoon nap, I could take a nap if I wanted and W could work on some things at home. I ended up sleeping for a couple of hours at W's house while she ran some errands and worked on bits and pieces at home. She didn't even blink to having me around again.
We ended up going out to dinner with D, then W dropped us here while she went for her appt. As usual, she spent half an hour here before she left for her appt to arrange all the things we had bought for here, tidy up some stuff in the kitchen and a few other things. She also had picked out some color samples when she was out for my front door, so she was trying to figure out which one would look best.
When she got back from her C appt, she was pretty quiet - D was sleepy, so we just bundled her up and put her in W's car. Hug, kiss, ILY. I talked to W for a while via IM after she got home - Took her a little while, but she started to open up to me about some things that were bothering her and how tired she was of having to deal with stupid people - I didn't read too much into it, but I figured OM was part of that equation.
So, I guess it was a decent day - Went from me having to spend the day with a sicky D, to the three of us spending all day together. W could have picked any day to take off, and she certainly didn't have to do stuff with me and D. I'm not sure what I should read into that - If anything. W was really friendly and happy all day long. She even made some jokes and laughed with me.
On another note - After the bomb, W took off her wedding ring and was wearing a couple of other rings on her fingers. They were all old rings that she had from a while ago. Yesterday and today she wasn't wearing any rings at all. No idea if that really means anything, but it was unusual.
