Your go out w/a bang comment hit the nail on the head. I guess I am worried that even if the A is truly "over", he may get a wild idea (or like 25 text message offers from ex-OW ) to have one last time before he moves. She is really needy and has been trying to get his attention ever since he broke it off. I read their texts when I found his secret phone in December, and even when they were "together"--although he lived w/me and slept in our bed the whole time--there were tons of messages from her at night trying to make him feel guilty, such as
"I will just have to lie here with my phone and wish it was you next to me"
"If you want to find me, I am out here on the curb where you and everyone else have kicked me...."
"You haven't answered my texts tonight, you must be with HER" (meaning ME!! )
and the best of all
"CALL ME." (2 min later) "CALL ME." (2 min later) "CALL ME"
So if he still feels any residual guilt over ending it, and she is there after bowling with her big puppy dog eyes full of tears, I am just afraid he will get sucked in "One More Time". But I know and you guys do too that "One More Time" could lead to more complications/entanglements. Lying to me to cover it up, calls to her to keep her quiet if it truly was the last time, etc.
OKAY, STOP BOBBI JO!
Sorry, had to get ahold of myself. Everything has been going better than I can imagine so of course I am sabotoging things all by myself.
Anyway the point was, you basically said what I was thinking but afraid to say out loud. I will just be glad when bowling is over and he has a new job where he won't see her everyday. But tonight I really am not too worried. He left his shaving kit and all that stuff for getting ready for work at the house. So I know he fully intends to come home tonight. And I fully intend to be happy to see him! Unless of course I fall asleep first. But last time that happened, it had a happy ending
) to have one last time before he moves. She is really needy and has been trying to get his attention ever since he broke it off. I read their texts when I found his secret phone in December, and even when they were "together"--although he lived w/me and slept in our bed the whole time--there were tons of messages from her at night trying to make him feel guilty, such as
