That's good, Sue. Get out with the girls and don't think about the H -- focus on Sue for once. I know it's tough; we all do. We know how fatigued we get in facing this constant stress every day, and how we sometimes just want to rest, really rest, only to start worrying again about our little ones and how all this is affecting them.
Yes, it's tough. But focusing on Sue is what D3 needs right now. Your D needs at least one of her parents to be the source of stability and reason in her life, and you have a responsibility to make sure you take good care of that parent for D3's sake. With D3 away right now, take advantage of the opportunity to recharge your own batteries. Dwelling on the lunkhead is not going to help that.