Glad to hear things are still going well for you and your H. Yes, one of the things I learned at Retrouvaille was to accept his feelings for what they are, his feelings. Feelings are feelings and they are not right or wrong. A third party might be able to sit in judgement as to who had the bigger hurt, but arguing it between you is like arguing over who has a bigger headache. You can't feel the other person's pain.
