so glad the session went well, lwb. good luck with the new atty. Getting ducks in a row is a good thing, even if you never (hopefully) need them.
don't be mad at yourself for your reaction to your h's moods and such. the fact that you recognize it for what it is is HUGE, and is the first step to changing your own behavior.
your ic is right, you are an amazing woman who should be commended. we have all known that, but I'll bet its nice to have it confirmed by a professional.
very interesting, btw, about h changing up his schedule. but again, be careful about that one. deep down, his issues aren't about ow. its about something else. and your IC was right...he is drowning/stagnant right now. hopefully that will change, he will realize he needs to do some work on himself, etc.
Last edited by SallyM; 02/06/0812:33 AM.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"