Tired and giving up

[LuvMyHusband]

when he has visited in the past, of course I didn't db very well and things blew up. I am not doing those things any more, snooping, etc. but it sure feels like it's too late. He has emotionally divorced himself from me and nothing I do seems to get through to him. What hurts the most is the impact on our kids. D8 asked him if she was more important than the people in CA. She asked him if he wanted to be here, she doesn't feel he really cares about her anymore. I tell her that her daddy loves her but she's not feeling it.