Calling your home Iwb - thats awful to bring the affair into your house. And to talk to your D? She must have been confused. Unbelievable. What are they thinking? Thanks for your advice I am documenting everything - went to court today and he lied and said I wont let him see her but I do have documentation so because we disagreed the judge will have a court guardian talk to my D and ask her what is the truth. My D is right in the middle. I dont know what she will say because I think she will be afraid to tell the truth that Daddy will not see her if she says anything bad about him.