No - Im not sleeping well at all - I'm exhausted every night from work and taking care of my D but my eyes pop open at 2 am just about every day. I lay there thinking and then just get up - I have the coffee pot going by 2:30 becuase its just no use going back to bed. Then of course by 4:00 Im wiped. Ive heard of that book "crazy time" - Ill check it out becuase yes this is crazy time. I have been thinking of seeing soemone to talk and maybe get something for sleeping. Fish Im glad you had breakfast with your w hope if went well. A slim chance of reconcilitation is a chance - and I think that is all any of use are asking a chance - just one more chance. Your D does deserve better - so does mine. I hope our spouses will realize the pain they have caused them. Well I went to court today and we have to go back again in March - H still not submitting all financial doc that he is supposed to. Mentioned he has not seen D in a month and he lied said I wont let him - of course I have all the emails and doc stating otherwise and so becuase the judge does not know who to believe someone will be speaking to my D and she can tell the truth. But yep this is what is has come down to my daughter has her own laywer. what a ###@@ mess. THanks for your thoughts broken tree.