Some guy is going to thank your idiot husband for being a moron. Some guy is going to be thankful for you in his life. Remember the lessons learned here. AND give that guy the DBing book on your 3rd year anniversary, to help communicate with each other. : )
Good advice, Jack. I will remember that, if I ever get lucky enough. Although I did tell H once that there were several men that were glad he left and wanted to buy him a drink. He said he would belly up to the bar. When I got legally separated I told him he had filet but he threw it out for ground beef, however, if that is what fed his appetite, bon appetite'. Then he called the ow dog food. Nice.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.