Thanks RCR,

I'm thinking too much again! Sat. AM when I was at her place the phone rang and she sai, "I'm sitting here talking with my ex-husband." A little while ago she said on the phone, let's keep the kids in the school they're in "no matter what happens". Second time she's said "no matter what happens" in the past few days. What's up with that? does it mean she's not sure what's going to "happen", not sure we're going to get a D?

As far as standing only until and if a D, that's where I am now. I feel it's going to be really ugly if we go through that as my idea of what's fair and her idea of what's fair are light years apart.

I also don't know if I could trust someone after a D.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13