Honestly? I would refrain from anything that will put fuel on W's fire.

Keep it clean, friends or not. Then she has nothing to justify any negative feelings.

Just MHO.....

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!