Some of the things that concern me @ present: [list] [*]null 1 W's overall health - she is believed to have a chordoma (bone cancer @ brain stem) and she swims in a sea of stress constantly
2 Relative to #1, In breaking ties w/ me she informed me that she would no longer need the family health ins my empl provides
3 She is teetering on edge of losing the hard earned fairly lucrative state job she fought hard 2 get - and of course it's health benefits she just aparently enrolled in
4 Even with her job intact she is just barely (at times not)making ends meet financially-she has w/out notice helped herself and mentioned afterwards to an acct she promised to remove her name fm over a month ago
>>>>> On this matter, so as not to be taken advantage of by her broken promise any more, I opened up another acct today. This was partially inspired by a comment on here (Sandi's perhaps) that when dealing w/ MLC S ..do not aid there efforts financially.
5 Back in Dec (after latest H bomb) I promised against W's wishes (though it was token resistance) to pay her apt rent each month til lease end, "stating that it was my honor, privilege & vow to do this as her H. (probably hypocritical in light of above remark)
6 I am trying be as delicate as I can possibly be in handling all things that are a part of this ever growing and maddening sitch but in particular I want to be a Dad to this 14 yr old girl so badly. My vulnerabilities are dangling in the breeze once more waiting to be smashed like a pinata
