Glad to see you posting again. It seems you are doing as well as can be expected. You are living in same house as w? She is nasty to you regurlarly? Do you avoid each other in your home? How's your d handling this?
BTW I never got to congradulate you on your flying lessons. How are they going?
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
We kinda backed into a relationship talk/fight yesterday. She told me that I am desperately clinging to the marriage (what?). Also, I just cannot help myself. I am stalking her, tracking her on her computer and bugging her car. But it's all gonna stop once I get served with the court order to stop. OK. Should be the easiest thing I have ever done...
Oh, and I got another reminder that I have had sex with Shrek's wife. Only Shrek's wife doesn't know that wife knows this. Which tells me that Shrek is making this stuff up...
I told her that I know that her relationship with Shrek is still alive. She demanded that I prove it. Of course, without snooping, I can't prove it... but last night, while lying in bed, I thought of something.... a way that she can prove that the relationship with Shrek is dead.... she needs to do just one thing... something she has done thousands of times... something I know she enjoys.... something I may enjoy as well....
But she won't do it. She won't cheat on Shrek. But it will be fun to throw it out there when the subject comes up again.
glad to see your back and still with us. Of course she's nuts.. just for the fact that she willing to throw in the towel because of what was it again??... not that she's had an affair or anything..
Yes detachment will be easy for you.. You have to have some normalcy in your life..
((hugs))
taa
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I have decided to establish some boundaries. This is something I should have done long ago.
Brief background: For as long as we have been married, we have had two cars. Usually, one older one, and a newer one. I have always permitted her to have the newer car.
That's all gonna change next week. She has logged thousands of additional miles on the newer car, traveling to see her boyfriend. And I feel as if I have enabled it. So after she returns from being out of town next week, I will have completely "adopted" the car that she has been driving. And I will hand over the older car to her.
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