OK new day, new dilema. Yesterday evening I shared some pictures of my D10's gymnastics meet with a woman I know from aerobics, she used to be a gymnast and for the past year we chat before class frequently. I told her D's next Meet was in two weeks and she told me she would like to join us, if that was OK with me and D10. I said it was OK with me and I'd check with D10, who said it was fine "as long as she doesn't talk to me before the Meet, I need to concentrate". Now, it just occurred to me, what do I tell my W who will be there with us? Do I just tell her a friend of mine will be joining us with no other qualification? I mean, my friendship with this woman really is none of her business and nothing is going on but W might also feel uncomfortable not knowing we're "just friends". It's funny because W is the one who told me in re to Coffee Buddy "you two can call yourselves "friends", but I think we all know where this is heading" So if I tell her we're "friends", big deal, she won't necessarily believe it. What to do? Oh, and I will be keeping my eyes open on this one, I know it could become one of those weird situations I seem to get myself into! Who the heck knows. I have no designs on this woman. Any thoughts on what to tell W?


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White