IF my wife had shown me the book. I would have been...ehhh.
IF my wife had read the book, and actually changed. REALLY changed in aspects that were important to me. Not nagging, not being so co-dependant, I'd probablly be married to her still.
DBing is in reality self help. Saving the marriage is secondary to it. You improve yourself and how you interact with others, you improve your marriage. IMHO.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
