I have decided to establish some boundaries. This is something I should have done long ago.

Brief background: For as long as we have been married, we have had two cars. Usually, one older one, and a newer one. I have always permitted her to have the newer car.

That's all gonna change next week. She has logged thousands of additional miles on the newer car, traveling to see her boyfriend. And I feel as if I have enabled it. So after she returns from being out of town next week, I will have completely "adopted" the car that she has been driving. And I will hand over the older car to her.

It's the right thing to do.

And I won't back down.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9