Any advice anyone can give me on getting through and over this would be MOST welcome. Thanks for letting me spew--
Well that really wasn't much of a spew.
We try to get past the grief here, by focusing on ourselves. and Improving what 'we' think is lacking in ourself, failings and things we are generally disatisfied with.
We suggest taking your mind off of the grief by GALing (getting a life) going out and doing things you always wanted to do, things you always enjoyed doing, things you haven't done in a long time, or things you have never done before.
Dettaching is not letting their venom, or drama affect you much and both GALing and self improvment help with learning how to dettach.
You might find better advice on the Divorced but not Done Board, since you seem to be headed in that direction regardless.
And to be honest, I'm not really going to suggest that you wait the ammount of time it would take for a man who has left you 3 other times in 10 years. Sometimes history is a dipstick for the future.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
