In a lot of ways I bet that threat is even more effective.. too bad that option's not available everywhere. \:\)
Nik, it used to be the norm that every state had laws against adultery and had policies promoting M and the family. Not any longer. Not since the No-fault Divorce movement.
At the risk of sounding like a political cynic (What, me? No way), you have to remember that politicians are the ones who make the laws, and they're often the ones in this case who don't like little inconveniences like the sanctity of marriage to get in their ways.
Yoyo, thanks for that. I do realize this might be a bust for me, but then if I don't do this and my W is successful in alienating me from my S's, then I will at least have solid proof to show my boys, some day maybe if they're ready and wanting to know why their lives were turned upside down, just what I have been up against. To be honest, I wouldn't really feel right about destroying their trust in their mother, but she's already doing that now while taking steps to harm their bond with me.
