I'm a stander. Who's well along in the divorce process.
Answer the petition. By Valentine's Day. (Twisted ain't it)
Contest. Challenge. Stall. Will it p*ss her off. Absolutely!!! Tough.
My W accused me of "Repeated and extreme mental cruelty." Even admitted it wasn't true. Only put it in there because I wouldn't wave the two year waiting period. Also challenged that ourdifferences were not "irreconcible". Also, stated that I should be custodial parent, she should pay me support, and by the way, you forgot to list some of your assets. But ALL through the legal process. Use your lawyer as the bad guy.
Someone here told me: You do marriage, let the lawyers do divorce.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
