UD ,W8 I appreciate all your suggestions and support! Monotomy--yes I never thought off it like that UD but it true, life is not monotomous anymore why is that? we are unsure of the future ?
Tipper awesome post! I loved what you said It is so true we are withholding our true feelings to allow H to breathe and look within maybe they dont have the capacity to deal with anything they are in survival mode we too are in a form of crisies..we are just handling it different Their crises was caused by a developmental stage in life ours was caused by therm pulling out of the M so maybe, b/c our crisies was not developmental we have more control we didnt have to shutdown we could seek help though books, tapes, thereay, and others who have been down this path they couldnt maybe the pain was too great, and the pressure to run to strong they all have so many of the same symptoms like a disease must be something to it
Yesterday S6 called H he asked are you coming sover since H missed his sunady visit(superbowl) so H tried to get me to tell s6 no..he couldnt tell him he wasnt coming I told h ,,this is his responsibilty to tell s6 when he cant make it..he obviously doesnt like to disappoint him as if he hasnt disppointed him already H got mad at me..but he told S and D12 both he couldnt come I feel like I cant and wont make it easier for him peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
