Lanzo,

Reading the original thread it looks that our situation are similar but we get different results, It makes me think that maybe there is a chance for reconciliation but I am doing something wrong and missed on the chances.

I know that what happened on the weekend happened because I snooped on her and I found out about the texting, although it was not new for me but the frequency and the messages themselves surprised me.

I am in the dark again


Me 42
W 27
Married: 6 years
Together: 7 years
Daughter: 3 years
Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country)
EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07)
Papers served on 2/6/2008