w8ing
Maybe UD is right
start a conversation
and just listen
listening even if it is surface meaningless stuff helps the connection
Maybe try something light
see where it leads
I think they just shutdown and walk away while in crises
the turmoil is too big and they somehow think it is us they need to run from
keep the door open in small ways
I would ask my H to fix something for me in house..sometimes I just find stuff
and when he would fix it
I would appreciate him for doing it and it would open ip a safe door or small talk
they are shutdown we can lead them back a little
it is hard
maybe it isnt their fault..they are sick
delusional
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow