Your relationship with your H may or may not be over with.
Your journey of self has just begun.
You are realizing your worth.
It is huge.
You have to come to this point.
Just because he is saying it is over, it will never work out, blah, blah, blah, blah, does not mean anything. He changed his mind once, twice, three times, he can change it a fourth. Anyway, who cares, that is his problem, not yours. Let go
I think you are doing wonderful..
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11