I could not agree with dry heat more. He knows your personality and as you stated your "passive nature".. He will only try to take advantage of this. They usually are manipulative and cunning.

Money and assets are a difficult thing for MLC'ers to let go of, control is there ammunition.


Be kind and nice to him, but protect yourself.

If I would not have filed for divorce when i did, I would have lost my home and all the savings. My ex was on a major spending spree on himself. No matter how he talked about taking care of me, he did not. He lied through and through..

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11