Maybe it would help to have another person explain the finance stuff. Like a 3rd party- financial planner.
Maybe sitting down with all the numbers- this is what we have, this is what I will bring in, this is what is owed, this is the monthly.... all nice and calm- come up with a plan together (although you already have the plan-you can lead her towards it).
Ya I know. Sounds good on paper, and right now I"m hardly one to talk- with the way my H is with money (none of his and all of mine)...............
here's an idea
The last one to sit their S down and go over finances to ease tension has to buy the drinks next year when you come back to Vegas.
How's that???????
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
