Honestly? I think my H came home because he ran out of money and decided "what the hell".

We're actually going on 3 years. I changed my screen name when I thought H would be joining me for KLA. My original register date is 11/12/05. H moved out July 05.

My advice? Don't make promises you can't or won't keep. If H doesn't move home (did you give him a time frame???) Then you will have to follow through. Are you willing to file D papers? Are you willing to start? If not, then H will see that and will take advantage of it.

Second- stop worrying about H. Get a life without him, with or without the D papers.

When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007

7/1/05 Bomb
7/20/05 H moves out
2.5 years of Rollercoaster
10/30/07 H moves back home