Want to not ever hurt him - well that may be out of my hands, if I can avoid hurting him without hurting myself in the process then yes.
I don't think love just adds up to the sum of those parts, I can feel that way about a lot of people, I could feel that way about most of the people on this BB for example. It doesn't mean I want to send them a Valentine card with "I love you" written on it.
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
Want to not ever hurt him - well that may be out of my hands, if I can avoid hurting him without hurting myself in the process then yes.
I agree with Fran. I can feel the above for a neighbor I only talk to a couple times in the summer time.
It doesn't mean I want to send them a Valentine card with "I love you" written on it. So, you aren't going to send me a VD card. GEES, I was wanting something from London.
If It is OK with you, Happy Valentine's Day Fran.
I am one of those guys that bends over backwords for people but almost can't say ILY.
Can I skip VD this year?
Fran, if things are going well, can you tell your H you love him from a point in time to another point in time.
Example: I loved you on Monday but on Tuesday I mostly liked you and on Friday when ABC happened I was controlling my resentment towards you.
