Thanks chocolateeyes & lwb-

I did my D6's nursery in Pooh when she was little and she still loves him to this day! Of course she is into all the new "big girl" stuff too but you are never too old for Pooh.

I told H that I spilled the beans and he was glad because he was tired of all the blame being put on him. He calls her all kinds of bad names now (when she is brought up). Does he do that to make me feel better or to convince himself that she is no good?

We are starting to not talk about it as much. I actually feel better now that it is out to her H. She is not talking to me and according to her H, she never will again. But that is cool.

My sister works with her and she is afraid my sister will start telling people at work about what she did. She thinks my sister JUST found out but she has actually known all along. I think it will do her some good to sweat it out a bit!