Piecing may be a good place to try out. I have seen that in many cases once the WAS makes the decision to reconcile, the LBS is suddenly faced with doubts. Your situation is different but your feelings are probably very similar to what the folks there have felt.

In my case I believe my wife had a "sexual awakening". Like you I believe she has a very hard time speaking to me about her desires - although she has no problem talking to others about it. I'm not sure how to overcome that. It's as if she's afraid I'm going to judge her.


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07